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Financial domination is a specific fetish in which a submissive (typically a man, called a pay pig or cash slave) allows a dominant (or findomme – typically a woman) to control all aspects of their submissive partner’s financial life. This rarely discussed fetish is a facet of BDSM in which money is the focal point of the relationship.
This can go as far as giving access to bank accounts, restricting spending, and managing savings. In this case, the findomme manages the spending of their cash slave. The cash slave may even have to report to his master on their spending and ask for permission to make certain purchases. He gets off on being dominated by – and beholden to – someone else.
What is a Findomme?
The Urban Dictionary defines a findomme as a “gorgeous sexy lady that takes over men’s finances,” though that’s not always the case. This kind of relationship typically involves some sort of humiliation, teasing, and – of course – a heavy dose of domination.
Why Become a Cash Slave?
You may wonder what would propel a man to open his wallet. What makes him enjoy giving his money freely to a woman while being humiliated?
“Though a financial domination fetish is sexual in nature, it has very little to do with sex.” – Click To Tweet
I spoke with QueenFaeV, a Europe-based financial dominatrix who has been involved with financial domination on and off for over 10 years. “Financial domination is the subversion of the traditional financial power dynamic inherent in the standard western view of male-female relations,” she says. “What subs find arousing does not mesh well with a popular conception of sexuality – because findom (financial domination) isn’t about sex and not really about the money. It is the switch in the traditional role. It is about power, and most of all about giving control to a dominant woman.”
She notes that many of these men have high-stress jobs, often managing the finances of others or those of their businesses. So the idea of letting go – of giving someone else access to their money and trusting them to manage it – is alluring. It’s about losing control.
As you can imagine, a financial domination fetish is expensive and involves a lot of spending. Pay pigs get off on the fact that they’re spending a good chunk of their money, teetering on the edge of what is responsible and what isn’t.
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